its starting over

a year ago life was hell. not hell but not right. smiling was hard, getting by was even harder, but ive coped with a few good friends and help here and there. it seems the worst is over. fuck 2k8. its like right now is january. its a new year. life seems to be starting over but not dramatically. my mom is moving home. she doesnt know it yet, but its home, to everyone. it seems everything is gonna be the same. is it? am i joking? no. it has to be. i want to start seeing my family more often. all of them. cousins, aunts, uncles, and of course my immediate bros and sis'. its so weird. family is so weird. the same people, you've known them your whole life and even when you dont see each other for months, when you reunite its like you never parted. thats only family. you can take pictures together like you spent everyday together. and it just works that way. the magic of family. i need to get more into it. my family is larger than normal, so i should be taking advantage of that, all the different people i know, opinions, advice to be taken. Its pretty wild when you think about it. all my relatives have been to hell and back. almost all of them. we are strong and get through it.
tonight i am at daniels. listening to flight26 on xm (well on the tv). He is in bed sleeping. i dont work tomorrow so i stayed up. got some coffee earlier from dunkin donuts so maybe thats why i feel so awake. and so in the mood to write. i find myself writing ALOT on my phone, and i should update it and put it on here, but..... its a little uncensored. It talks alot of shit and its just anger. i write on my phone when angry. when i want to scream and shout, i put it into words on my sidekick. well, knix that idea, im not gonna be putting any of that for the world to see.
i wish i had a laptop. someone should send me money for one, paypal to indieunderfire@gmail.com if i had a laptop, i would write so much. i would blog 3 to 4 times a day. it would be so amazing. If only.... i could probably afford one soon... next week if i dont spend my money like crazy. i need to budget. when i have money i buy fast food breakfast, 711 snacks and endless stupid shit. i need to stop. i went grocery shopping a little. but soon i need to shop for my new apartment so maybe i could start staying there.
ugh my next chain of thought
im nervous to leave
like... this has become home. my safe haven. ive hidden here for the past year. exactly a year.
its been so fun. obviously so fun that i cant leave. i love laughing at stupid shit. being with "the guys", being with people, being with daniel. i know when i stay at my place i will have to have people over or else ill be alone. and i dont know, i know ill find myself back here. all the time. how do i break a routine i have no desire to break. i know i need to. for me. for him. but it just seems stupid. like why now? who cares. im happy. really, im happy. i could be happier.
um
the google phone comes out on the 22nd. i get paid the 17th. that phone will be mine. are you jealous YET? look at it!! its like iphone. maybe better? im not sure yet and not really concerned about comparison, i just want it!! all mine pretty puhlease. and also taking my ipod to get fixed soon too so that'd be sweet, so my new technology purchases for the next month include this phone, new ipod (well covered in warranty so its not a purchase but a given), new cd player in my car, and well thats it really. but thats alotta tech at once, right?? ha i love it. im feeling pretty stoked on life. got nothing really bringing me down. working a good amount of hours, it rules. getting good paychecks. being able to afford life and pretty soon pay off debts, im taking donations, like a said! read up for my email for that shit. ha. doesnt hurt to ask, you know? we are all needy people these days. im so excited to get my life on "track" you know? i want control, and life and fresh air, and smiling faces, and no more anger.
work is going really good. im enjoying the hell out of it. i see alot of animals throughout the day, i guess i start to define people by their pets. basically i have no respect for a person who cant control their own dog. there's just something wrong with that. i was never an expert on dogs but damn, my dogs were well behaved. little cosmo and wookie. i loved them. and they were good. but yea, i love seeing dogs and kitties all day. the other day i was playing with petsmarts dwarf hamsters, they are about the cutest fucking thing ive ever seen. im gonna buy one for kylee as a pet. once i get a little ahead financially, but yea. if you ever get a chance to hold one, you will die! i guess i hate mice and rats and shit, but these things are so cute dang, little balls of fluff. im really addicted to Pomeranians too, they so cute. but i still have my deep love for pugs and my next dog will most definitely be a pug, maybe one with special needs that i could love to death and take care of, especially with my job id be able to afford that and handle it. its just something id love to do if i had the chance. how can you say no to that face? i fell in love from the start with cosmo then rescuing wookie from some white trash hicks who kept her in a horse farm driving 7 hours in the snow through west virginia moutains with my front bumper falling off, had to tie it on when i reached my destination, wookie was so nervous and so little, i loved her so much the second i laid eyes on her picture on the internet. she was worth the 7 hour drive and possibly my life. even though we got pulled over and skidded through the snow, we made it and we had the best time together, sleeping together and waking up to her trying to cuddle. i could cry she was so cute. her and cosmo fighting for my attention and who was gonna sleep in front and back of me. god, i loved my life. what happened? one day ill have that again if its the last thing i do. theres nothing like love from dogs. pugs.
well
its late and ive blogged enough for now. i need to go to bed! im so tired! goodnight and thanks for reading if you did.....

xo